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When can we read this book? I’m looking forward to it!

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There is so much woolly, obfuscatory, noncommittal academic-speak in this Substack post that it's a labour to parse it. It's a "waterfall of euphemisms" to use the authors' own term. That it serves as an introduction to a forthcoming book does not bode well for the book.

As far as I can tell, if the introduction is any indication: it's a book about detransitioners that is going to spend a lot of time hand-wringing over the meaning of detransition, and apparently far less time pondering the obviously-more-paramount question of what transition itself means in the first place.

My sense is that the authors — whose stated "ethos is of trans-affirmation" — are trying to get out in front of the detrans narrative, to control it in such a way that the trans movement (their presumptive readership) doesn't have to completely reckon with the fatal flaws in trans ideology that the growing number of detransitioners otherwise exposes.

Framing such a book in terms of "conversations" rather than "truths" — i.e., skirting hard facts in favour of anecdotes — strikes me as an evasion tactic. Smells like cheap theology, like the stuff the nice minister lady at the local United Church might babble at you if you asked her why you should bother joining her dwindling congregation.

To use a stronger religion analogy: a trans identifier and a trans ideology supporter teaming up to write a book about detransitioners is rather like a pair of card-carrying Scientologists writing a book about all the ex-Scientologists who've flown the coop: you can't help but sense that all they're really doing is trying to stem the bleeding and salvage the cult they're foolishly too-far invested in. A couple of sunk cost fallacies, doubling down together.

And you can see it already in the strained academic jargon throughout the introduction: these are people whose stated goal may be to enlighten readers, but you can tell by their studious avoidance of framing anything in terms of objective material reality, they have their thumbs on the scale: what they really want is to palliate the fears of trans-identifying people and their allies.

(And by now we all know, trans-identifying people avoid objective facts like vampires avoid the sun.)

For example: they go on about the significance of the (long-debunked) "one percent" detransition statistic and how much it means within the trans movement. But they go to comically elaborate lengths to avoid directly dispelling it. FOR CHRISSAKES JUST SAY IT IN PLAIN ENGLISH: Clearly, vastly more than one percent of trans-identifying people are detransitioning. Say it just like that. Go on, I dare you! Instead, we get, "we're seeing the establishment of detransition-related care services" and talk of emerging alternative "narratives" and "paradigms". Oh, fuck off. People are leaving your cult in droves, and many of them were horrifically harmed by it. Just fucking say so.

(My sense of Kinnon MacKinnon's entire output of academic work over the last few years has been of someone whose personal life decisions — namely, transitioning — both cloud her ability to see the issue clearly, and drive her to frame the issue in extremely biased ways. This is someone channeling her own mental demons into academic work, which makes that work fatally biased and all but useless at contributing actual objective knowledge about the world.)

It's a sensibilty of "We concede that detransitioners are *interesting*... but trans is still fine! Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain! There's nothing to see here, ultimately!"

Some people might go for that sort of thing. Some might see it as a sort of olive branch between those "inside" and those on the outside the trans-ideology bubble. But I no longer hold such a conciliatory view to this kind of making-nice exercise. The time for that is long gone. By now these kinds of things just feel like people inside the bubble stalling for time as it begins to collapse around them.

Colour me EXTREMELY skeptical.

And I'll be specific about the fatal flaw as I see it:

The trans movement long ago ceased being about people making private personal decisions about their bodies and their personal senses of themselves: it involves coercing society at large to participate and play along with trans-identifying people's fictional "identities".

No one gets a double mastectomy in a vacuum: they do it because they think it'll put them in a category where *other people* are obligated to pretend not to see their sex. The "treatment" behind trans medicine — the part that actually does the work — is not in the patient's mind (and it's certainly not in their body), it's in the social environment that surrounds them. It's in the rest of us. WE'RE effectively YOUR treatment, and we haven't been given a say in the matter. Transition only "works" when trans-identifying people successfully bully everyone around them to *react* to their modified bodies the way the patients want them to.

"I got medical sex change treatments, so now you all HAVE to pretend I'm the opposite sex or you're bigots!"

When you can no longer use opposite-sex changing rooms or bathrooms without being rightly challenged, when your legal ID documents no longer coddle your feefees with a state-sanctioned lie about your sex, when people don't play along with your demands around pronouns, well, then, how exactly did all that surgery help you? I know that for a minuscule number of rational people who've transitioned, it still does. But I strongly believe that the vast majority of transitioners' motives lived all along in the eyes of their beholders: they wanted to take total control over how *everyone else* saw them and observed the facts about their bodies. And that's not how domocratic society — or shared reality — works. Nor is it a healthy foundation for mental health treatment. At all.

That's the fatal flaw behind the entire trans movement — it's the thing that locks people inside their bubble, certain that "transition" is the only thing that could have possibly alleviated their suffering (rather than, say, getting therapy to work through the toxic ideas they have about atypical gender expression), and condemns them to forever oppose everyone outside it — and it's why we're going to see more and more detransitioners come down the pipeline as the bubble's inevitable fate approaches. All bubbles eventually burst.

The introduction concludes with an implied but nevertheless blatant defence of trans medicine: it asks whether detransitioners are "tolerable uncertainties" and then solicits the preferred answer by asking "whose suffering counts". (In other words, detransitioners versus gender dysphoria sufferers: let's not get rid of trans medicine just because of a few pesky regretters!)

That whole framing is bullshit: firstly, and obviously, because framing detransitioners as collateral damage, even implicitly, even in a sly "just-asking-questions" way, is unethical. But even more broadly: no matter how much suffering gender dysphorics endure in their minds, they have no right to violate anyone else's boundaries in an effort to address their personal struggles.

Let's reframe the question, then: whose RIGHTS count? Because trans-identifying people's "gender" anguish doesn't override my rights. If you think "transitioning" will change my obligations in how I am supposed to pretend to see you, or how I'm obligated to address you, you're trampling on my rights and that's simply not acceptable. In that framing, the entire enticement to transition was a bogus and unrealistic idea right from the start — a covert cooking of the books to shift the burden of gender dysphorics' mental health problems over to everyone else's social obligations. The "medicine" part was just the rite of passage that sealed the transaction.

I highly doubt the authors are going to go anywhere near addressing these core issues. They're too busy distorting the issue behind carefully worded "waterfalls of euphemisms": it's all just "conversations" about everybody's varying and equally beautiful "beliefs". Heaven forfend actual, you know, objective reality stomps its nasty way into the picture...

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